What's between a kite holder and the kite is just a string...
At times- This string may be too small which may caused it to break, causing us to damage or lose our kite, or causing injury to ourselves or even the people around me, or in the worst case, both.
If you have a string that is too large, this kite may not respond correctly causing us to lose control of our kite, or our kite may not fly at all.
The construction of the string itself is also very important. Longer strings can slow down the response of our kite, making it easier for some people to control the kites.
Longer kite string can also increase the area of the power window for traction kites whereas shorter string can make your respond much quicker and can get the kite out of the power faster.
Building and constructing the bond between the kite and kite holder is so important.. Just like building any friendship/relationship/inerpersonal relationship. There's certain closeness and intimacy- knowing how to build it, is utimately important- for me. Because needless to feel fearful to be vulnerable, broken, insecure- knowing the loss of a loved ones.. If it too thin or small, it will be easily broken and hurt. Words, decisions are difficult to put into place to fully describe the pain that it will bring because the damage is not just the physical. The kite can be vulnerable and unsure of what's ahead, afraid that it may hurt anyone which includes the kite holder- which may withdraw at times and even the owner does not know it...
If its too thick or large, it means that the level of closeness and intimacy are intangiable, untouchable- not easily broken or replaced.
I m not sure if this really make sense but yea... I believe we all have to choose how to build this kite in the right way. Either we break or build by learning to build close relationship with people around you..
You struggle to love, to relate, to understand? I guess that's where the other party feel it too but God says "He is love." 1 John 4:8 When you learn to draw close with God, He will draw close with you teaching you to learn to Love just like how He does. But it takes extra effort to do so...

Building and constructing the bond between the kite and kite holder is so important.. Just like building any friendship/relationship/inerpersonal relationship. There's certain closeness and intimacy- knowing how to build it, is utimately important- for me. Because needless to feel fearful to be vulnerable, broken, insecure- knowing the loss of a loved ones.. If it too thin or small, it will be easily broken and hurt. Words, decisions are difficult to put into place to fully describe the pain that it will bring because the damage is not just the physical. The kite can be vulnerable and unsure of what's ahead, afraid that it may hurt anyone which includes the kite holder- which may withdraw at times and even the owner does not know it...
If its too thick or large, it means that the level of closeness and intimacy are intangiable, untouchable- not easily broken or replaced.
I m not sure if this really make sense but yea... I believe we all have to choose how to build this kite in the right way. Either we break or build by learning to build close relationship with people around you..
You struggle to love, to relate, to understand? I guess that's where the other party feel it too but God says "He is love." 1 John 4:8 When you learn to draw close with God, He will draw close with you teaching you to learn to Love just like how He does. But it takes extra effort to do so...
A decision to make yet so tough to do. A choice to choose yet unsure of how to..
Tug-of-war
Tug-of-war

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